1 month down, a lifetime to go

If I take the time to think about it I honestly can’t believe that it has already been a month since we got married. Thirty days sounds like a lot but in reality it is very little, especially when it is filled with so much stuff. It hasn’t been the quietest of months since the…

#when2becomewands

It happened.  We actually did it.  Yesterday I finally got to marry my best friend and it was the most amazing/blizzard/stressful day of my life. I wouldn’t change anything about it.  This is just a quick blog for now while we wait to get picked up to go for our train to Edinburgh for our…

Our Big Fat Lesbian Unboxing…

  *WARNING* This blog is NOT for the faint hearted (or the easily offended…)*WARNING* Sarah is currently filming the video to go with this blog, so I’m taking the opportunity to write the blog to go with it (while also prodding her occasionally prodding her in the face with a giant penis straw). So after…

Don’t get too excited

So yet again, almost a month has passed and I’ve failed to add any content at all to the blog, my countdown app is telling me there are 46 days to go and there’s still a lot to do. Eep. That said, we have managed to achieve some things in the past month and now,…

Our Big Fat Lesbian Life

So, it’s been a while and though that’s because nothing much has been going on in wedding land I still wanted to write an update and that means you get to take a look into our big fat lesbian life which has been truly hectic of late. Before I go any further I’d like to…

Inflatable Vaginas and Other Lesbian Hen Do Conundrums

  If you go out in any of the bar heavy areas in Newcastle from about April to September chances are you’ll come into contact with at least one hen party. Having lived in Newcastle for most of my life and working in clubs in York for the rest of it I have a pretty…

Say Yes to the Dress…

So Sarah has done her bit, her dress shopping experience, so I figured it was about time I shared mine too. I admit it was the bit of the whole wedding planning thing that I was least looking forward to. To start with I HATE shopping, especially if I need something and let’s face it,…

Sarah finds THE dress…. and it’s not black!

So for a few weeks Libby has been nudging me to write a post to add to this blog, and I’d struggled with the idea until today when I realized that actually I could make a video, (which is totally more my style)….. so here it is! Sarah finds THE dress, click the link below!…

Gay Rights Don’t Stop With Gay Marriage

This blog goes completely off topic and I thought long and hard before I even sat down and wrote it about whether I should, or could, write it. Whether I had the right to even begin to comment on something which happened thousands of miles away from me and didn’t effect me personally. I wasn’t…

If Music be the Food of Love…

How on earth do you go about choosing your wedding music or a reading for your ceremony? I mean, how do you find something that stays true to you but is still, I don’t know, appropriate? And how do you find something you both agree on, especially if you are like us and your musical…

A Re-Introduction

So, it’s maybe been a while, or more than a while really. In the last blog I posted (almost two years ago shamefully) I’m quite sure that I promised to be better at this and I wasn’t. I’ve decided to start blogging again now because things are actually happening, we aren’t married, yet, but we…

General Update

So, it’s been a while. A really long while and I feel like a bit of a failed blogger but honestly, in wedding terms, not a lot is going on. Obviously we are still talking about the wedding, we’ve even discussed and looked into a few venues but only in the sense that we have…